We often think connection begins when we reach for the rope. When we call their name, or cue a movement.

But truthfully,
your horse knows who you are before you even get there.

They read you in silence.

Your posture.
The weight in your step.
The breath you didn’t even notice you were holding.
The thoughts spinning in your head.

Before you ask anything, you’ve already said everything.

And this is where so many horses get misunderstood.

When they turn away, we say they’re being rude.
When they freeze, we label them stubborn.
When they brace, we call them difficult.

But what if,
they’re just reacting to the signals we didn’t realise we were giving?

Presence isn’t a technique.
It’s not a step-by-step routine or a training plan.
It’s a willingness to become more aware of ourselves,
because our horses already are.

At the 2 Grey Mares Clinic on May 16 in Malaga, we’ll slow down enough to notice what your horse has been trying to tell you all along.
Not through force or fixing, 
but by stepping into a softer, quieter kind of leadership.

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One where trust builds before the first touch.
One where you’re no longer asking, because your horse is already with you.

If this speaks to you, I’d love to see you there.
Message me for clinic details or drop a comment if you’ve ever felt your horse responding to something deeper.

We’ll be working from that place.

Take Care

The Northern Grey Mare

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